The Book

This is what dying looks like
from the hospice social worker’s
side of the room.

Seven deaths.
Different families. Different endings.
What they had. Who showed up. What had already been decided.

Read the opening and a sample from the first of seven stories. Free.

Cover of Dying Truth: What Happens and What Helps by Elise Luce
Illustration of Patsy walking with her walker toward her postcard-covered front door, smoking, with a flamingo doormat.

The First of Seven

“I’m not dying today. Tell your clipboard to relax.”

Patsy was eighty-six, on oxygen, and had already ordered the party favors for her own funeral.

Read the excerpt

Questions About the Book

Why should I read this before I need it?

Because when it’s your turn, there’s no orientation.

Is this book too sad?

There is death, grief, conflict, and heartbreak. There is also humor, kindness, ordinary moments, and people who keep showing up for each other. The goal isn’t to make dying sadder. It’s to make it less unfamiliar.

Will this help if I’m the one dying?

Yes. Some conversations happen years too late. Others happen this afternoon. There is still time to understand what’s happening, ask better questions, and make the next decision.

How long is it?

Short. You can read it in an evening. It’s written to be finished.

About the Stories

The stories in Dying Truth are composites drawn from recurring situations, familiar conversations, and years of social work practice. No story belongs to one person or one family. The practical realities have not been changed.

The Book

You’ve met Patsy. Six more doors, counting down.

The site tells you what to do. The book shows you what happens when nobody does it in time.

If this is an emergency

Dying Truth provides information, not emergency or crisis services.

911Immediate danger, a life-threatening medical emergency, fire, or a crime in progress. 988Suicide, mental health, or emotional crisis. Call or text 24/7 in the U.S.

On Hospice?

For expected changes in symptoms or comfort, call your hospice team’s 24-hour number first.

If there is immediate danger from something else, call 911.

Your hospice number is usually on your paperwork, medication sheet, refrigerator, or admission folder.